You’ve also been encouraged to “drill deep down inside” and release those forgotten seeds of your visions for the grown up you. Now you are being asked to push the edge of your experience and knowledge levels and try new opportunities.
This chapter is designed to plant those very seeds that will take you from spectator to participant. Let’s see if we can pique your interest in some long forgotten adventures.
A “bucket list” is about dreams or goals.
Sometimes, when we steal a few moments to reflect, we might have a tiny tinge of remorse – for the undone or the unaccomplished during our determined mission of always paying the bills and caring for the family. These regrets might be about the things you once imagined in your life or hoped for in your future but learned to live without.
Can you conjure up those passed-over thoughts now that you are in this wonderful new phase of your life? Are they, or a version of them, now obtainable? Is it possible or even probable that you can realize those filed-away dreams?
The recent movie “The Bucket List” capitalized on the idea of the dreamed for and not yet attained. Its popularity has been nurtured with the current Baby Boomers coming of age and exploding demographically.
Two of my husband and my dreams and goals were:
Buy a floating home (not a houseboat- they have motors) and live on a river in the Northwest.
Full time in a motor home for a couple of years while travelling our nation.
In my last post about healthy aging, we explored some basic ways to protect the brain. I promised in that post to provide some additional fun and effective ideas to improve memory for now and in the future. Here’s a list that can easily be incorporated into daily life. Choose one or two or go for all of them.
How to Improve Your Memory
Challenge your brain. You can read or do crosswords or watch football or play cards or brain games. Any or all of these are good. Make it even more effective by doing something new. If you’ve done crosswords forever, try learning to play video games. They’re not just for kids. Lots of research shows that the brain loves learning something novel.
In retirement, I said yes to a senior tap dance group from the senior center. Only sixty at the time and retired, I wanted to try something new.
Most of my Marketing Director career was spent meeting deadlines, arguing budgets, competing for new business, presenting my point of view and generally keeping my closet ‘Rockette’ under wraps.
While retired from my real job, but having flex time working as a consultant in my previous field, I found I had time to strap on an old pair of tap shoes and revamp my childhood “shuffle ball change.”
The December 27 post written by Pam, talked about her reaction to the “at your age” comment made by her doctor aged 36. Her observation basically is that “at your age” is a comment made to seniors that fall into the “over the hill.” group. As she said, there is a new paradigm for today’s seniors.
How to say Senior Citizens in a nice way.
Years ago, my company created a Celebration Club 55 group of customers who merited special products, special presentations and special pricing. While deciding on the group’s name intended for those 55 plus, various names like “Gold Group”, Silver Rewards, and, heaven forbid, “Senior Citizens” were all tossed out as too negative and offensive.
As ‘Richly Aged’ Baby Boomers learning new things ourselves, we came up with 100+ tips to age positively. We thought we would share these tips in the form of blogs. There are probably hundreds more that you who have gone before us and you who will come after us believe enriches the years that make up the ‘third phase.’ Please share those comments with us (once we get the share comments thing hooked to the right thing!) Strike that!
We figured it out!!
Learning new things isn’t always easy!
Personally, I think that learning how to install and run a self-hosted blog site should count for an A+ in the “learning new things” category. I graduated from University of Texas, Summa cum laud, though it was definitely in the last century. Still…my little “Beginners Guide to Successful Blogging” by firstsiteguide.com (which is excellent by the way and pretty much ‘connect the dots’) did say on page 23: Continue reading Learn new things, Richly Aged Boomers
I just kept spending more and more on my hair. The upkeep was killing me. It started with $30 precision cuts in the 1970s. That was quite a bit of money back then, but it seemed worth it. But soon it was highlights ($50 minimum) along with the haircut which now cost $45. Then along came some grey hair, and that demanded a base color first, followed by highlights, followed by the haircut. Yikes! One day not too long ago (but while I was still working), I walked out of the salon with a lovely cut and color but $275 dollars added to my credit card bill. Continue reading Trim the Cost of your Haircut